[B]Please everyone, by all means enjoy looking at our pictures if that’s your thing (we love giving it a go with the camera and the generally really nice comments made are very much appreciated by us both) but if you’re looking for more than that, and as much as a pain as this is, then do read the whole of our profile. It’ll tell you just where we are in all this and will save us both a lot of time if what we’re saying just doesn’t work for you.[/B] Hi there We’ve refined and changed our profile as we’ve learnt the ropes on here and been fortunate enough to meet some delightful people. We’ve had a lot of fun with the new friends we’ve made both socially and in the bedroom or wherever else we’ve together chosen to be having a naughty time!! We’ve come to the conclusion though that we're spreading ourselves too thinly. This is defeating what we originally set out to achieve which was to be part of a relatively small group of likeminded people that both socialised and played together if the mood took them. Putting it simply, the sexy side has been great but having made some real friends along the way the social aspect is of equal if not greater importance to us and indeed we’ve found that without that the ‘sexy’ just isn’t as much fun anyway. We love dining out and entertaining at our home, the ‘naughty’ dressing up, and the flirt, tease and sensual conversation that flows with the right people. Erotic photography, as amateurish as ours is, is another of our pleasures and we love to spend time away too. We’re telling everyone this because we don’t want anyone to waste their time or ours if you see things differently and the sexual side is the only or the most important consideration for you. Equally we’re not saying that they’ll be no play time with new people that we meet but in truth that for us now will only flow from the pleasure of the social relationship and the buzz that this brings so you need to see that as a 'maybe if we get to know one another' rather than a ‘that’s what we’re all here for isn’t it?’ if we can put it that way. And important too that we continue to make clear what we’re looking for, there has to be some attraction after all, so sorry, but the boring long old profile is still here pretty much and God help anyone that contacts such a demanding pair after reading this little lot!! • We're C and J, a married couple, together nearly six years, love one another to bits, and we're lucky enough to enjoy a good standard of living. • Our pictures, all taken since July 2013, will tell you a lot of what we’re about. They’re our ‘shop window’ just as yours should be, will tell you a lot about us and in particular what we see as being sexy.

My Ideal Person And what we’re looking for:

• Intelligent, easy going, secure and mature couples (let's say 50 and upwards) that like to socialise and both want to be here to potentially share sensual and sexy new experiences together. The guys need to be at least average height please, you both need to be in reasonable shape (no problem with a few extra pounds here and there and haven’t we all) and preferably you'll be neatly trimmed at the very least. And the big thing, you should have a happy and contented view of life.

And the clues we look for - brace yourself for this because we’re saying it as it is ok and if you’re easily offended best not read on!!

• A meaningful and informative profile or introduction written in reasonable English that suggests you’ve taken on board the messages we’ve tried so hard to convey in our profile along with some recent tasteful and sexy ‘this is us’ pictures that convey something about you. Close ups of your ‘giblets’ tell us nothing at all, are not remotely sexy in our view, and simply tell us that you’re not for us.

So, if you think that you've got what we’re looking for and decide to get in touch, to stand out from the maddening crowd please at least tell us enough to suggest that you’ve read this missive and get what we’re about because if you can’t be bothered then neither can we. Blunt, but we're so bored now with receiving witless badly written or text speak messages from the 'not a clues'!! And no we’re not up our own backsides but we do believe that intelligence, sensual style and some semblance of imagination are important if we're to have a fun relationship. We’re choosy, and with the delightful friends we’ve made we can afford to be.

If you've chosen not to display any pictures do please send some if you decide to contact us. We also like to put a face to the names of the people we're in contact with so please be prepared to exchange recent'ish facial shots too - we see this as being an indication that you're seriously interested in meeting up with us. Let's make that 'honest' shots too please - five plus years ago don't count we're afraid so shall we say no older than two years to mirror what we'll send to you.

On the age thing, we don’t mind a little porky (the boy part of this team is actually sixty three by the way but don’t tell anyone) but do please let’s make that a number that you might conceivably get away with in daylight.

And finally, one strict rule for everyone please, complete relationship honesty – we do not want to meet anybody playing behind their partner's back.

When we're old and decrepit and sitting on a park bench we want to be reflecting on the experiences we've had together so what might we have done with you that will make us laugh and bring a big naughty grin to our faces?

C and J x

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage, Touching, Watching

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Its all about fun together

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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